Unless we are aware, to some degree, of what and who we are, how much of the other are we really going to see, hear, feel or understand? Moreover, not only do we need to be cognizant of our inner landscape, we need to be reasonably comfortable with it as we seek to create a safe space with, and for, patients and parishioners to be themselves in. The Dutch pastor and spiritual guide Henri Nouwen reflects: What does hospitality as healing power require? It requires first of all that the host feel at